DRUNK, HIGH, OR DEPRESSED:
OCCUPATIONAL HAZARDS FOR MUSICIANS
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Set clear goals - know who you are
and where you are going and how you are going to get there.
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Involve significant others. Loved ones
at home are important sources of support.
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Communicate, communicate, communicate!
Too many musicians are into a mode of "Stop talking and play, and that's
what counts." What a mistake. Putting thoughts into words and doing your
best to make certain you are heard is essential to emotional health.
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Take time to problem solve. When
there is some sort of conflict or misunderstanding, immediately work for
a resolution. Don't stick your head in the sand.
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Plan, plan, plan. Taking care
of the details of life is just as important as taking care of the details
of music. Overlooking the little things can result in a mountain of problems
in a very short time.
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Set aside regular times to talk, at
every step of the way; before a gig, rehearsal, studio session or prior
to a road trip make certain there is time to talk, review, plan, bitch,
what-ever. Having band meetings only in times of crisis is not enough.
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Have a schedule. Living by the
seat of your pants will wear you down. A routine, even a flexible one,
is very comforting.
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Be healthy: eat, sleep, relax, exercise.
All are critical to emotional health.
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Chemicals are hazardous to your emotional
well being. Think before you use; don't end up on auto pilot where
one drink quickly becomes six and you're an alcoholic before you know it.
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Be polite: Sugar will get you
more than vinegar almost every time.
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Be assertive, not aggressive nor passive.
Find the balance of being sensitive to yourself and sensitive to others.
The extremes of always fighting or always ignoring can be stressful.
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Keep it simple. Don't complicate things when
there are difficulties. Focus on ones issue at a time and work to resolution.
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Be present centered. Don't live
in the past; take care of issues as soon as they come up. There is an old
saying: " The more you stir shit, the more it stinks."
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Learn from mistakes. When a mistake/accident
happens, take care of it and figure out how to not do it again.
Staying sane and sober in this business is
pretty simple. Applying common sense in a consistent fashion will do it
every time.
If you have
any questions or want to talk about stress of the business, send an E-mail
to, or phone Dr. John Hipple, Ph.D. at 940-565-2741.
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